Intentions don’t matter much is the thing. If I am stretching and I accidentally punched someone, I still punched them. The pain of being hit is still there.
I find myself saying this a lot, but I don’t think many people truly feel this way. If you screamed at the top of your lungs and called [cissexist people] all douchebags, that’s valid. That’s okay. That’s not inappropriate in the least. Anyone who says it is lacks an understanding of oppression dynamics. See, you’re not screaming and raging over a sentence with a typo. You’re raging at the ideology that forms those sentences. You’re raging at an entire world using you as a doormat. That’s rage-worthy. If institutional oppression is not worth anger, then I don’t know what is.